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I would like to thank Simon for the inspiration to write this post and I dedicate it to you, you are truly a player at heart.
Players are people that use online dating sites to arrange a string of casual encounters, they are simply sexual predators looking for their latest power trip and online dating sites offer a wide range and number of potential victims.
Once they have metaphorically ‘shot’ you they have no further interest and will move on to the next victim.
The sad part is that the first night or weekend you spend together really is special, they are everything you thought they would be but for them the thrill of the game is now over.
A simple reply saying “sorry that’s not what I am looking for” results in never hearing from them again or a polite reply saying ” thanks for the reply and I hope you find what you are looking for”.
These people I can respect, I may not wish to live their lifestyle but they are honest, polite and genuine. These are the guys and girls that send you sexually explicit, rather nauseating first messages, including their instant messaging details so you can have cyber sex or an unsolicited message saying “liked your profile, blah blah blah, I have attached a photo of myself.
well they should be good at it, they get enough practice.
Treat the online equivalent with the same contempt and do not respond to them and DO NOT open the attachment, this just feeds their desire to shock.They bide their time and take weeks or even months if necessary to get to know you.They will say all the right things at just the right times …..In their mind of course there is always the remote possibility they will have a bad weekend without a new victim and may need to call in one of the old ones.Remember for them it is a game, they are an actor playing the part of James Bond or Marilyn Monroe and will shower you with romance, compliments and be everything you want and need for them to be.